Somebody asked me, “Why should I come to Becoming Herrss?”

Somebody asked me, “Why should I come to Becoming Herrss?” And I had to let them know, you can’t just come to Becoming Herrss. This ain’t no walk-in-the-door type of space. I prayed over this brand. I asked God to align Becoming Herrss with the right people, the ones who are ready. Ready to heal. Ready to unlearn. Ready to do the soul work. Because this right here? This ain’t no surface-level, pretty, sugarcoated healing. We don’t do “aesthetically pleasing” healing. We do that real work. That uncomfortable, mirror-facing, soul-shaking type of work. And truth is, a lot of people in this lifetime will never be ready for that. Some may never truly heal and that’s okay.

But Becoming Herrss is for the ones who are ready. Ready to dig deep. Ready to sit in the dirt and still choose growth. It’s not about asking, “Why should I come?” The real question is, “Are you ready?” Are you really ready to face yourself? To let go of the masks, the ego, the roles you’ve been playing just to survive? Because once you step into this journey, there’s no turning back. None. It’s hard to un-know what you now know. Your old life won’t align anymore when you start to walk in truth. When you gain the knowledge of self, when you start seeing your patterns, your triggers, your truth, life will keep pushing you to grow. The people, the places, the cycles that once felt normal will start to feel heavy as hell. Life won’t let you go back, especially when your spirit no longer fits in those old spaces.

So if you’re praying for clarity, for change, for healing, ask God to lead you to the right people, the right places, the right alignment. And if that alignment leads you to Becoming Herrss, then maybe this space is for you. Maybe I can walk with you. Maybe we can heal together. But only if you’re ready.

— Becoming Herrss | Kayla Maryam ✨ 🌼