Herrss Blog
Welcome to the blog a space where I share my poetry, my thoughts, and the quiet ideas that shape my becoming. This is where I speak freely, reflect honestly, and invite you into the deeper layers of healing and self-discovery. You’ll also find the heart of my work here: the 4N framework Notice, Name, Navigate, Nurture guiding us back to ourselves, one truth at a time. 🌿
Where the Silence Lives
And it’s not just the big headlines. Sometimes it’s the local names you never forget. I remember my old neighbor, Zachary Bernhardt. A missing boy from Clearwater, Florida. He’s been on my mind a lot lately. It’s been 23 years. He vanished from his apartment in the middle of the night and was never found. His case became one of the longest actively running Amber Alerts in the country. And still, no answers. No closure. Just silence where a child should’ve grown up.
I Have a 3D Aura And I’m Not Dimming It for Nobody
For a long time now, I didn’t give a fuck. And I still don’t. I’m just finally putting it into words. I’ve always felt the weird energy. The side-eyes. The fake laughs. The shift in the room when I show up and don’t fold. I clock it all. And I used to try to understand it, to decode it, to make sense of why people act funny around me when I’ve done nothing but exist. The truth is, bitches are weird. And I get it, but at the same time, I really don’t.
I’m Not Centering Men Anymore and I’m Good With That
I watched the women in my family center their entire lives around men, men who were emotionally unavailable, abusive, manipulative, or just not capable of loving them the way they deserved. I saw them give everything and still be left empty. I saw them abandon their own needs to try and hold a relationship together. And I decided that wouldn’t be me.
Celebrating the First 50 : A Milestone That Means Everything
Today, I’m celebrating something that might seem small to some, but to me, it’s a big win: I’ve reached 50 subscribers on my YouTube channel!