
In this video, I’m speaking to the women who feel like everything is shifting, even if life around them still looks the same. This is for the women who feel unfamiliar in the places they used to fit. The ones whose spirit feels louder than their logic. The ones who can feel a new chapter rising, even while they’re stuck finishing the last one.

Divine evolution is the kind of growth you can’t schedule. It’s the becoming that arrives unannounced, sits quietly in the middle of your life, and rearranges what you thought you understood. This video is for the woman who feels like she’s outgrowing old patterns, old versions of herself, and old ways of surviving. The woman who can feel God stretching her. The woman whose intuition is speaking louder now. The woman whose comfort zone has started feeling like a cage.

The Exhaustion Behind the Strong Black Woman Image | Becoming Herrss There’s a version of us the world celebrates — the woman who never breaks, never rests, never asks for help, never slows down. The woman who always carries it. The dependable one. The responsible one. The one who fixes everything without ever showing how heavy it feels. But here’s the truth we don’t say out loud: The Strong Black Woman image is exhausting. And it’s not the whole story.

Every experience, every relationship, every pattern in your life is holding up a mirror to what you’ve agreed to believe about yourself.

Attachment styles shape how we love, how we trust, and how we sometimes sabotage the very connections we pray for.

Believing in yourself isn’t about being delusional — it’s about walking in divine alignment. Too often, life tries to convince us to shrink, to play small, and to only dream what seems “realistic.” But the truth is, your faith was never meant to be realistic.