What if I Am Not Ready to Forgive?

Forgiveness isn’t always about letting go sometimes, it’s about holding the truth gently and saying: “I won’t carry this pain for you anymore.” In this episode, I talk about the complicated space between anger and healing the part where you’re not bitter, but you’re still hurting. Where you’ve accepted what happened… but it still lives in your body. Where you know you deserve peace, but some things still feel unforgivable.

💭 I’m learning that forgiveness isn’t a finish line.
It’s not about forgetting. It’s not about letting people back in.
Sometimes, forgiveness looks like acceptance and sometimes, it just looks like walking away for good.

✨ Inside this video:
• Why I don’t force forgiveness I’m not ready for
• What it means to be triggered even after “moving on”
• Learning to protect my peace without guilt
• Breaking generational patterns of silence and self-betrayal
• Finding freedom in honesty, not performance

👇 Before you click away, take a moment to check in with yourself.
This week’s Messy Middle Check-In Prompt is a space for truth, softness, and self-recognition.

You’re NOT behind, You’re NOT failing, You’re in the middle and that middle is sacred.